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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^Wtf? In a partnership, if one person says “I’m not fond of that,” the reasonable response is to ask “why not”? And then to stay in the discussion so both partners understand what each likes. It’s completely immature to respond “well then I’m not participating.”  This doesn’t appear to be a situation where the DW has spent months doing research only to be sit down by an uninvolved DH. And if that situation were occurring, the mature response would be, “I’m feeling frustrated. . . “. Not “do it yourself.

And I’m a woman, btw. One who finds most of the DWs posting here to sound exhausting. [/quote]

In theory, " I am feeling frustrated would be the mature response." If we are talking about a couch, forget it. I am not wasting anymore time on that. I am buying what I have spent way too mch time researching. We decided we were buying a couch, he gave me the green light to start looking. I looked and I found. I buy. It's that simple. He doesn't get to come in at the end and crap on my choice. Now if he offers to take over and find another couch, that's fine as well.

Now if we are discussing buying a house, then I go with the "I am feeling frustrated discussion."(And this one happened to us too)
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