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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean 'this is about her and not the kids'? Is new guy good to kids? If he is, let her move providing you/they can afford flights or travel. This is life. Is she a good mom? I knew a dick dad who refused and so he got custody until the kids were 12 and then they moved to moms province and barely spoke to him again. They were 6 & 9 when it happened.[/quote] What the hell?! This is so biased it's unreal. No, Mom does not get to pick up and move THEIR children just because she has some new dick. The reality of divorce is that you are not free to make those decisions independently.[/quote] We don't know what all happened during OP's marriage. Lots of people stay in terrible marriages until they find the strength to get out or a new real partner. No one leaves a marriage that has a good partner. IF OP isn't used to being the default parent or primary parent or up to the multi-task of running his children's schedules, lives, activities ,etc. then he should calm down. Don't fight for something you will suck at, with terrible ramifications for the kids. No one can snap their fingers and suddenly be Mary Poppins reincarnated for years and years. [/quote]
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