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Reply to "women's invisible labor - anyone had luck getting spouse to take on more of the mental work?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not the signing up for camp and making doctor's appointments, it is the responsibility to remember that those type of things need to be done. Not the OP, but I don't always want to be the one assigning those tasks, sometimes I would rather have them assigned to me. Besides work (FT), I have to juggle all that stuff in my head. Sometimes I want to be the one who is told where and when to show up. Too much to ask, maybe? [/quote] That isn't 'mental labor'. Unless you are seriously handicapped, as an adult you have to notice that things need to be done and do them. What you call "Mental Labor" appears to be what was formerly known as "Nagging". Your husband would likely appreciate it if you stopped the "Mental Labor" altogether. I expect that is why he doesn't tell you what to do and where to be, you know "do unto others ... " [/quote]
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