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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just go ahead and approach any unmarried (look for a ring) woman (or women) you find attractive at work, the gym, church, the grocery store, the jogging path, a restaurant, and begin a conversation with them.  It is good practice at socializing in any case, and if you find the conversation is going well, ask them for their number, or give them yours. Pretend you are in college again (in terms of attitude, not age group selection), and take a risk.[/quote]

Ugh.  Please don't do this.  It's fine if you want to chat without an ulterior motive.  But, when you do that and then try to trade up for my number, it leaves me with a bad taste in my mouth.  I am not out in the world on constant sexual or romantic display for your availability.  Also, there is no way I am going to go out with some rando who approaches me on the street - that's dangerous.

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[b]I am the woman who made this suggestion to the OP, and I respectfully disagree with you.  I personally find it flattering and sort of romantic, in an old-fashioned, throwback sort-of-way, when people still meet randomly, out-and-about, and just by luck or fate.  If for some reason you see me, or know me a little bit, and you find me to be nice, intelligent, sweet, funny, attractive, or you just happen to like my smile - and therefore think that you might like to get to know me better - then please do politely and courteously approach and begin a conversation to see where it leads.  It may indeed be a dead end, but I will be equally polite and courteous back to you whatever the case may be.[/b] [/quote]

The previous poster appears to be a woman looking for normal, no mention of money.[/quote]

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