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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Notice how all the women keep posting about being the men needing to be financially secure, large portfolio, established career, etc?

Those are the women you should steer clear of.

Those are women who would claim underemployed men or those wrecked financially by kids medical bills or caring for a dying spouse, etc. are unworthy of affection or love. I (43 year old man with multiple PG degrees) make 4 times what my little brother does back in Iowa. Am I 'better' than him?

Those women are gross.

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NP. Agree that a woman *of any age* who is looking for a sugar daddy is gross and probably deeply in debt herself.

That said, some of us had first marriages to a guys with no work ethic and bad financial skills. I carried the financial and logistical weight in my family of four for 20 years when he left for his midlife crisis. To be fair, my Ex has ADD. He’s still out on the market in the DMV area, for some woman who wants to share her pension with him (he wants to retire at 56 but spent a lot of his savings hiring the most expensive divorce lawyer he could find and buying two new cars in the last 3 years).

As for me, I want somebody who is steady, reliable, a saver, loves to travel, and fun. A unicorn, maybe. I’m in good financial shape (including buying the house from my ex) and I don’t want to wreck this newfound stability.[/quote]

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