Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Women: Cohabitation with your boyfriend is stupid"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think cohabitation is frequently done by couples that want to take 'the next step' when they aren't sure about marriage. And that it creates a situation where it becomes quite difficult to disentangle yourself from the relationship so many people who live together go on to get married when they shouldn't simply because it is the next step and a lot of others stay in a relationship that doesn't have long term potential because it is the path of least resistance. And plenty of people live together and go on to have happy functional marriages. There's nothing WRONG with living together but you need to go into it eyes open with the pitfalls and try to have contingency plans. [/quote] This. It’s hard to objectively decide if you want to marry someone when you’re living with them. It’s like deciding if you want to go on a vacation when you’re already on the flight there. [/quote] There is no objective decision when it comes to marriage because emotions step in. If you are committed to work through troubles and pains of adjustment, you can do it. If you aren't, then normal human differences may appear bigger than they are. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics