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[quote=Anonymous][quote]It is normal and natural for a man to be bothered about marrying a former slut (your words not mine). The biological impulse is to avoid paternal misattribuation but at this point even with birth control and paternity testing it's ingrained and won't be undone without genetic engineering and any man telling you otherwise is just trying to keep your and his spirits up. Also our bodies produce pair bonding hormones after sex that are diminished with each additional partner. Also risk of STDs. Choices have consequences.

That being said DH made marriage vows and needs to stick to them. But it's both wrong and counterproductive of you to try to brown bear him into pretending he's thrilled that his wife slept around or even that it doesn't matter -- it most certainly does. [/quote]
Separating one specific aspect from the person's character doesn't make sense. OP, most likely, would not have been attracted to his wife if she was of the covenant type. His personal issues and fears cause him to seek the outside factors of his dissatisfaction. He resorts to judgement instead figuring out how to have fun.[/quote]

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