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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I know what female interest looks like. Had lots of it post HS but couldn’t break down initial barriers (cold approaches). Have less barriers now given life changes and a bit more confidence. I make them laugh, smile but never ever suggest more or allow more.  Been asked for drinks etc but turn it down so no, I’m not deluded. Could have had many opportunities given business travels but don’t even let that get anywhere near happening. Contrary to the angry women here reading into things too much, I’m not an asshole.

[b]I think if I poached her from a convenant this wouldn’t bother me. Yeah I missed out but she did too. [/b]Maybe we’d have similar expectations now and not be content with routine because the wild/exciting was never gotten out of the way.  More drive now too? I don’t know.

I have to let this go. I get it. [/quote]
You are a petty, bitter, little man. I hope you find your way over this and never breathe a word of it to your wife. If you want more and varied sex with your wife just ask for it and leave her past out if it. If you can't do that, I hate to break it to you but you aren't as confident as you think.[/quote]

This post is irrationally vitrolic.  Overcompensating for prior behavior PP?

My wife and I met when we were both in college.  Both only had one partner before (in both cases a LTR).  Never bothered me to settle down young but very happy wife didn't sleep around.

OPs point of view would be considered normal by 95% plus of people who ever walked the earth.  Only in our very unusual culture (big coastal city lots of yuppies with liberal arts education (indoctrination?)) is it verboten to think like this.

It would be far better to offer OP constructive advice on how to work through this.  Unless of course your just stirring the pot or trying to blow up an anonymous stranger's marriage.[/quote]

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