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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Here's the thing: all these women who "lose their libido" would DEFINITELY find it very soon after divorcing. I've witnessed this many times over. Clearly, these women are able to "find" it, provided they have sufficient motivation. [/quote]

You don’t get a pat on the back for wanting to have sex with Brad Pitt. [/quote]
There are a lot of legitimate reasons to want sex. Being horny is the best one. But continuing to enjoy all the non-sexual benefits of marriage is another valid reason to have sex. Obviously most low-libido wives find value in staying married (otherwise they would be EX wives and threads like this would not exist). OP, you need to frame the conversation properly. What she wants (a faithful husband who meets all of HER needs while she "gets to" never/rarely have sex) she cannot have. Not with you. [u]Tell her exactly this[/u]. She might just "find" her libido, the same way she certainly would post-divorce. Or, worst case, you are free to go outside for your normal needs. Either way, your sexless marriage problem is solved.[/quote]

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