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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't you think OP has asked his DW many times what he can do to regain intimacy? Nothing OP has said indicates that he has been a substandard husband or parenting partner. Some people are simply born LL but in our society admitting this has become a taboo. The crying and saying "I'm a bad wife" to escape the conversation are the smoking guns -- the lack of desire is DW's internal issue, not a response to OP's failings. For her it is actually not an issue any more than being left-handed is for me. He is the one making it an issue. She would be perfectly content if he were not growing bitter and distant. In the past HL spouses had to suffer in silence but those times are long gone.[/quote] My ex strongly believed I was LL. It was his approach that killed my desire for him. I was saying to my ex that I simply don't need it. Reality was is that I really didn't want his attitude (mechanically it was fine sex, mentally it was not satisfying at all). [/quote] OP and all men, take careful note. This PP speaks the truth. If your wife is not interested in sex, immediately make her your EX wife. That's the advice PP is giving, and it's true.[/quote]
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