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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The irony about therapists refusing to condemn cheating women is you know theyd have zero qualms condemning men hitting their wives.

Women are victims no matter the situation.[/quote]

You’re an idiot. Men hitting their wives is in no way morally ambiguous. [/quote]

But being a lying, cheating slut is? Got it!  :roll: [/quote]

I[b]f, for example, you’re a crappy husband who withholds sex and intimacy [/b]and also won’t agree to an open marriage, I could see a wife having an affair rather than just pulling the plug on the marriage - especially if there are kids involved. It’s not ideal, but both parties would be at fault in that scenario.

(I’d feel the same if we swap the genders of course.)[/quote]

I am/was the wife in the situation, although it was never a physical affair, "only" emotional. For years I was ignored, insulted, and rejected, and married to someone who basically refused to share his life with me (goes out with his friends, I'm never invited even when other couples are there). So when someone showed interest I fell for it. As far as "cheaters always cheat", no, I would never do it again. We are in therapy. However, if he continues to withhold all intimacy (going on over a year now) then I will end the marriage rather than have an EA again. At this point I don't know which way it will go. [/quote]

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