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[quote=Anonymous]1. People can be very judgy about cosmetic surgery and will be quick to criticize you for wanting to improve/enhance your appearance. This is just me but I think to each her own and do what makes you happy. You have every right to feel good about yourself - if looking physically attractive makes you happy THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. Don’t drink the kool aid they are trying to serve on here.
2. I have a slight problem with a boob job or a lift having to be a family decision. I guess I would want my husband’s support and approval BUT how much does it really impact him?  Financially yes - unless you have some money of your own outside of the household budget. Do you? 
What if your DH wanted to make a large purchase (same $value) that you didn’t approve of? Would you have veto power? 
The financial piece is tough but couples don’t always agree on spending. Compromise is often necessary. Beyond the financial aspect I think it is basically your decision. 
3. Fake or perky boobs are not attractive?? Again, to each his/her own. Push up bras and breast enhancement surgery are huge industries. (Oops - pun). Sure I guess plenty of guys prefer sagging, drooping and wrinkly little breasts ...  Your DH will probably find you just as attractive after a boob lift or a boob job because he loves you. 
Maybe he needs some reassurance that you won’t run off with another man once you have nicer boobs. [/quote]

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