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Reply to "Great life, great wife, but I'm unhappy"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t want to criticize you. I just want you to know that you don’t have to be happy all the time, or feel in love with your wife all the time. If you feel happy and love your wife over half the time...that’s pretty good, I’d say. Not every thing needs to be fixed. Your times of unhappiness don’t need to be a cause for angst. I get bad times, too, and I wait them out. I know they will pass, I will feel love for my spouse again. And so I try to be patient and kind and not make any sudden moves.[/quote] +1 Anderson Cooper has a book called, "The rainbow comes and goes." Think about it...somedays the rainbow is there, somedays it isn't, but it always comes back. I'm someone who made some really bad choices because I thought if I changed something, it would make me happy. It took a long time for me to realize that the only person who is in charge of my happiness is me. ME. I learned to appreciate the things I have and the life I live and I feel so much more happiness now than I ever did. Is my life perfect? Of course not. But I choose to focus on the positives and look at what I can change...because not everything is permanent. [/quote]
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