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[quote=Anonymous]If she is dismissive of your needs, that is the concern. This state of affairs isn't fine with you, and she doesn't seem to care. She just keeps telling you it's no big deal, like you should agree.

That's your problem. You need to discuss this in counseling where hopefully someone would make her sit with the conversation longer than it takes for her to blow you off again. I'm guessing she won't go.

Your best bet is to tell her that whatever the problem is, it's doing damage to your marriage that she isn't trying harder to stay in contact, and doesn't care that it bothers you. If she thinks you're blowing this out of proportion, and you think she's being sketchy, then you could both benefit from a third party to discuss it.

If her work is so secretive that it can't be discussed with enough specifics to determine if she's lying, or if she's telling the truth, or if she just really doesn't care about you that much, then that in itself would make it hard for me over the years. You're allowed to say that you agreed to something, but it's no longer working.[/quote]

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