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[quote=Anonymous]OP, seriously, do not spy on her. Just speak to her, openly and directly, about your feelings and your fears. If you can't have that conversation then there is something seriously wrong with your marriage, whether or not she is cheating. But choose your moment carefully. Don't ambush her right when she gets back. Give her some warning: let her know there is something you want to talk about. And don't be accusatory ("You never call me! You obviously don't care about me!"). Just focus on your own feelings: you feel hurt and confused when she is so unavailable, and you have started worrying that something is wrong. She might be a little defensive regardless. But there are many possible explanations for her behavior, most of which do not involve having an affair. Maybe she's depressed. Maybe she's mad at you. Maybe it's just bad luck and exhaustion. Maybe she honestly did not realize you wanted something different. Etc. [/quote]
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