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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please explain to us how the conversation went when you told this "friend" about your plans. Did she ask you what you were doing to spring break or did you  initiate? She must be a fairly close friend for you to give not just the destination, but also the resort/hotel.[/quote]
This is OP. In a text she asked me, “Are you guys still going to XYZ over break.” I thought nothing of it, and actually assumed she was going to ask us to make some other plans with her, so I said, “Yes, we booked months ago, actually.” Then she said, “Great! We will be there then too! We can hang out while the kids play!”

I haven’t said a thing to her since.[/quote]

Wait, why would you assume she booked tickets because of that exchange? I would have assumed from that exchange that she'd separately made plans, coincidentally the same place, and then found out through the grapevine that you were going there too. I would not have necessarily assumed that it was done to spend time with you. You might still be right of course, that's also a reasonable deduction, but I don't think I would have assumed that was fact.[/quote]
We had discussed it! She knew the time and place from my own mouth! I realize that was my mistake, but I can’t change that now. [/quote]

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