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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives :) especially when I score big professional wins. [/quote]
If you were fat or denying him sex he wouldn't give a damn about your "professional wins".[/quote]
I call BS. No matter how in shape I get or how much we have sex, my DH constantly complains I’m not as professionally advanced as him. No sh*t I’m not, he’s almost 10 years older than me. [/quote]
That sounds really weird.  What straight man cares about "professional advancement" in his woman?  We care that you're not stupid and can hold a job, but that's about it on that front.[/quote]
A real man cares about his wife and when she achieves something significant, whether within her professional life or outside it, he is proud of her.[/quote]
He chose her in the first place - and keeps her - because of her looks. Any of her "significant achievements" are no more than icing on the looks cake. [b]That's just reality.[/b][/quote]
It's reality if a man treats a woman like a vehicle...gets some miles and a few dings and he trades for a new one. But, the reality is that a man of substance sees the beauty grow over time with so much more than some added weight, wrinkles etc. [/quote]

The beauty does not grow over time. It inexorably declines. But so long as this decline is not unacceptably steep, you won't trade her in.

Admit it. If your wife gained 200 pounds, and let her hair and skin go to hell, you'd eventually dump her. [/quote]

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