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[quote=Anonymous]I am a first generation SE Asian, I don't agree with Asian posters citing cultural reasons as valid justification for behavior of OP's wife, here are a few things which stand out to me: 1. Why didn't the mom have a healthy, warm relationship with her only child so that he could share this with her during dating phase? She needs to think seriously about the sort of mother she has been to him. 2.As other posters pointed, why bother coming to America if Vietnamese culture and DIL is such a big deal to you? 3.i don't want to sound mean but maybe OP's wife should put herself in the shoes of her DIL's parents? They have a huge adjustment to make since their blind daughter is marrying a first generation. Kid telling the parents a week in advance and parents not attending the wedding is a disaster on many levels. Hope parties involved are able to reflect and make amends.[/quote]
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