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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. DH and I have started seeing a couples therapist and have both said we want to stay together, improve communication, and end up stronger on the other side. He regrets what he did, agrees it was a selfish mistake, and says he wants to rebuild my trust. I have good days and bad days, and realize it will take time to heal. We also have no idea what is happening with the other couple's marriage, and I am really curious if they will stay together. If/when he hears from her, I will know immediately. Then he knows he must break off the friendship altogether. I absolutely do NOT want the chaos of divorce. I saw a sibling go through a divorce three years ago and it terrified me, and they had no children! If he fails to motivate himself into a better man and betrays me again, then I would be much more likely to split up. But for now, I'm choosing to trust and rebuild. [/quote]
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