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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a male. I did not sleep with DW at the hospital when our DD was born. We had been up all night the previous night. I knew that once the baby was home, there would be no sleep....so I went home at about 8 pm, slept for 10 hours, and came back by 8 am. Honestly, it was a good decision. My wife does stay with me about half the time when I am in the hospital. She leaves to help our DD. But, I have spent more than just a night or two in the hospital: I have been in for about 15 days over the last few yeas.[/quote] In my experience, you get a lot more help after surgeries than women do postpartum. I got zero help from nurses and still had to care for the baby all night long. When I had kidney surgery, they focused on my sleep and nurses constantly asked what they could do. I was in significantly more pain and more exhausted after labor. This is why women need a helper in the hospital after birth. [/quote]
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