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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are a disaster.

It's not okay for men to be absentee parents and it's not okay for you to be an absentee parent.

You are absent and this is what you get for being derelict in your responsibilities.[/quote]

Its not ok to have a cush job that you get out after 5 hours and have your wife carry the load. [/quote]
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Op isn't carrying the load.  Op is expecting her dh to carry the load.  Her dh seems to be doing what he wants to do is not the one complaining.  The kids aren't complaining.  Op is the one who is complaining.

I''m not saying that her standards are wrong.  But they are her standards and she needs to either find a way to do a better job, herself (texting kids to check on schoolwork, giving them a chore list).  Or she needs to look into hiring some of the domestic chores done so that her husband can focus on schoolwork and other more personal aspects (like grooming, clothes shopping), assuming he is willing to do that.

But treating her husband like a disobedient, low level hire in her home is not the answer.  Obviously that has not been working.  Time to try a different approach.

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