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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is absolutely no way to tell her without appearing like a smug, gossiping busybody. No matter how tactfully youbthink you can phrase it, that’s how you will be interpreted. Let it go. [/quote]

Smug? What? Where does smug come into this? Quite often, I am reminded of the fact that there are people on this site who are so selfish, petty and judgmental that they are mistrusting of all OTHER people; they are literally unable to fathom the idea of someone being a decent person, because they can't relate to it at all themselves

[b]OP there is absolutely a discrete, decent and classy way to do this, and it's called looking out for another human. You should let her know [/quote][/b]

This!!!!!

Also, OP, I think a lot of your concern has to do with the idea that you believe someone being cheated on does know, and therefore saying something is not necessary. What I can say to you is that she may not know at all. Or she may realize something is amiss but not really know what or why. Or she may know, but not have any concrete proof. And you seem to think, on some level, that if she's being cheated on, it's because she's crazy or sick or dramatic and the husband is the sympathetic character. But maybe she's all of those things because she's being cheated on, is living a lie, and is being gas lighted. Or maybe she is a crazy, terrible wife and the husband should be pitied. Even in that case, I still think she doesn't deserve to be lied to. Not even people who are unlikable should have their agency taken away from them. [/quote]

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