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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
Would you judge me if I invite you over, and you find I live in a cluttered, fairly grimy little house and heat you up a Trader Joe pizza? And are you typically a scorekeeper who's easily slighted, or is that just coming out as part of your vent here? Because I'm secretly an anxious, overwhelmed, exhausted introvert, and while I like having people over sometimes, I can only bear it if they are amusing, relaxed, and nonjudgmental. [/quote]

Not OP, but yes I would judge.  Why is your house grimy?  And super cluttered?  What is preventing you from keeping a clean, tidy house?

And how much effort does it take to go beyond heating up a frozen pizza?  What about ordering takeout from a pizza place (pizza and salad)?  What do you feed your own family every night?  Just make that, but a larger portion for a few more people.  Such as: lasagna and salad, store bought cookies for dessert.  How hard is it to put in a small amount of effort to reciprocate and be a good friend to someone who has clearly put in a ton of effort to invite you and your family to their house over and over?[/quote]

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