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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't tell you how bad it sucked to share every single holiday and life event splint into two. Every major event became exhausting and over stimulating for me and by the time I was 18 I barely came around for any holiday for a good 5 years. I was so so drained. I was 8 when my parents divorced.  Just because its rapidly common doesn't mean its ok or your kids won't suffer. [/quote]

That must have been hard for you, but would you want to know that your parents stayed together unhappily so that you could enjoy holidays a bit more?  I know it wasn't just the holidays and I don't mean to diminish, but you get my point. 
 My parents also divorced and although that was difficult I would not have expected or wanted for them to stay together 'for me'.  I'm still happily married (as far as I know!) but I also wouldn't my spouse to stay if he didn't want to be there.[/quote]

My parents are still together. They fought a lot when I was a child, and my dad constantly demeaned my mom. It was a bad way to grow up, and it offered me a bad model of a marriage. [/quote]

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