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[quote=ddintysons]First, there is no need to copy and paste an entire post.  It takes up space and any poster that is interested can look up post to see what was said.  Try just pasting the last part of the post and make things easier for everyone.

The issue with the PP (at 9:25) and OP is not that they are bad people.  [b]It is the hypocrisy[/b].  Read their posts.  What comes through loud and clear is that they are not accepting any responsibility for what the have done.

Do not say "A force greater than ourselves brought us together."  Say the truth:  I fell in love with a married man, I wanted to be with him and I helped him end his marriage so he could be with me.  It hurt his XDW and I understand and accept that it did.

The OP's hypocrisy is worse.  She talks about how great her AP is and what a mistake that she made choosing her husband.

Be candid.  He made a mistake choosing you - someone who would have a multiyear affair and be with him, even now, when she is considering leaving him for what she considers a better deal.  Say the truth:  I like boinking my AP and I do it because I believe, at some level, I deserve better.  Maybe you do, OP.  I do not know.  I but I do that he sure does.

Let's see if we get an answer from the OP on this one.  I bet not.  DCUM is brutal and I affirm that this post is as well. However, OP should not have come here expecting people to be sympathetic to someone who can treat those she promised to care about so poorly.[/quote]

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