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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to have an affair because DH basically ignores me except on the rare occasions he feels like having sex, and I am stuck on my own with the kids during his constant work travel.  However, I can't imagine how I'd actually do it.  No one has expressed any interest in having an affair with me.  I'm not overweight and try to dress nicely, but maybe I'm just too old?  (43).   How do people get these affairs started?[/quote]

In my experience, women in their early 40s, or from about 38 on are the best candidates for cheating.  You shouldn't have any trouble finding someone but time is always an issue.  That said, you aren't looking to date, just spend a few hours of quality naked time.  As for finding someone, you do know there are sites dedicated to this end, right?[/quote]

Guy here and this is my experience.  I cannot speak for the article, but I know several women bw late thirties and fifty who are itching for excitement and have gone through with it.  [/quote]

I am 50. I have a HS friend, a woman, who is also 50. We are not in the same area, so there's nothing between us except we talk candidly. (not explicitly, just very open). She is divorced, and said she has had affairs with three married men, one fairly seriously that is still going on. Four or five of her closest friends, also late 40/early 50s, also have been involved in affairs. Some women who feel unsatisfied still are very much interested and have a high sex drive into their 50s, and they can attract the men they want.[/quote]

Sure. I find it hard to believe that she had multiple affairs in her 50’s. The sex drive stops, it takes a lot of energy(most 50 plus do not have) and people love to lie about sex and money. The women I know over 5o talk of a different dynamic. The men are in demand and the women really have to work hard.[/quote]

NP.  Sounds like wishful thinking on your part.  I have encountered the same dynamic the other poster described.  Put it this way, 50+ year old ladies are still getting drinks bought for them by the bar.  And 50+ year old men (and younger) are still the ones paying for those drinks :)  Easy to see who has the upper hand.  Law of nature. [/quote]

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