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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't buy the theory.  I would describe my kids as very mature and independent for their age, but I also describe myself as a borderline helicopter parent.  The difference is that I push them to do adult things, but I'm always right there to support them.  For example, my almost-3yo daily does big-kid chores like setting the table, putting away laundry, taking out recycling, loading the dishwasher, helping with meals, etc., but for the most part I am right beside him.  And my kids regularly play work out disagreements over toys, etc. without my help, but always with me within earshot, so that they can bounce off me for help, or I can step in if things get out of hand.  So, while I agree that there are parents who borderline neglect their kids and then congratulate themselves on valuing independence, I think it's both unfair and unwise to tar anyone who values independence with the same brush.[/quote]

Your 2 yo can load the dishwasher and take out recyclables?  Unassisted?[/quote]

my 6 yo brother cant even unload all the dishes, a 3 yo cant be tall enough[/quote]

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