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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That he is terrible in bed and has a small penis. I say this in all honesty as someone who loves him dearly.[/quote]

I think I'm married to your husband. [/quote]

Why do you gals marry this??[/quote]

The guys are fine in bed early. But the fickle women get bored or their hormones change. But rather than blame themselves, they rewrite history & forget that they used to like having sex with him. [/quote]

Can confirm![/quote]

Nope.  We had a good sex life early on b/c I had to put a lot into it, a lot of time and effort, for us both to get off.  Now, 20 years in, post kids, with work, etc., I don't feel like doing so. When you're early into marriage and young, no one thinks you'll be in that position ("Of course I'll always want marathon sex sessions with my DH.") But the reality doesn't always live up to that.  I've tried to explain to him that I don't always want oils, candles, massages, etc., let's just make it fast and fun int he shower or whatever, but he can't or won't.

[b]I find it rather disconcerting those of you that feel the need to automatically turn it on the women. It's a load of BS. Yeah, sometimes the men are at fault[/b].[/quote]

I find it disconcerting that every DCUM thread in which a woman expresses sexual dissatisfaction, the responses automatically assume it's the man's fault (he's gay! he's asexual! he's cheating!). It's a load of BS. Yeah, sometimes the women are at fault.[/quote]

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