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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The vast majority of 14 year boys who are cringy at that age do not grow up to be rapists.

[b]Most kids that age, boy and girl, at completely inexperienced when it comes to romantic gestures and starting and maintaining relationships. They all say and do really immature things, because they are immature. They tend to act based on what they have seen or heard at home, in movies / TV. Peer groups are still so important and trying to impress your friends is still front of mind. Kids are insecure, inexperienced and often inappropriate.

I worked in a high school an I can tell you the lack of respect goes both ways. Boys and girls both do things and say things and pursue each other in really disrespectful ways. They are often all trying to get their own needs met and don't really get how these new experiences are impacting the other. They have no sense of long term and are focused on the day.[/b]

In situations like this, I do think being direct is important. She should say, you are making me uncomfortable, please stop. Or you are more likely be get a girl to answer you if yoi respect them. After that just ignore him, act like he's invisible and see if that extinguishes it. I wouldn't invo Ke the school or parents yet. It has been less than a week. Kids this age need to start learning to speak for themselves and she has you to run things by for direction and support.[/quote]

I completely agree.  [/quote]

PP Coach here. Yeah, this. Mistakes are mad on all sides. On ALL sides.

We need to move on. I tell my players to say "I'm not looking backward I'm moving forward".

My player might be too aggressive in approaching a girl because he's aKID. Your daughter might be too uptight because she's a KID. My player's teammates shouldn't blackball the girl because she doesn't eve know yet that she needs to loosen up.

And your daughter shouldn't mess up my player's chances with other girls because it's like the weight room. Just as he's not squatting 500 as a sophomore, he's not knowing how to hit on girls the way he will as a senior. He learns from his mistakes, just like on the field. So cut him a break.[/quote]

You do realize that the goal here is not to make sure your sophomore JV boys get their dicks wet, right?  You don't get to decide how uptight is "too uptight."  And if your player can't take no for an answer, he should be blackballed. [/quote]

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