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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Screenshot the evidence and email to yourself save the email and print a copy.

Go see a lawyer today.  Make sure you now rights and responsibilities of a husband towards a child born n the marriage.

MD isn't the only state with effed up paternity laws.[/quote]

What is the deal with all the people saying that OP needs to collect all of this evidence? Will he get more of her money when he divorces?[/quote]

No, but OP might have a more compelling case for primary or even sole custody if the child turns out to be his and he can produce evidence of the affair.

OP's wife is pregnant.  By engaging in sex with a man who is not her husband, she is potentially exposing their unborn child to diseases, many of which could pose a serious health risk to the child.  Since she and her lover both know she is pregnant, it is possible that they have not been practicing safe sex.  Even if they are practicing safe sex, condoms are not particularly effective against some STDs.

I believe that her behavior demonstrates a degree a recklessness vis a vis the health of their unborn child that should be introduced during the custody hearings.[/quote]

Adultery isn't seen as evidence of improper parenting. The judges separate someone's fitness as a parent from their fitness as a spouse. In short, no, just because your spouse cheated on you, you can't get more custody, unless you prove she or he is a danger to the child.  In addition, it's virtually unheard of for a man to get sole custody of a newborn baby. [/quote]

Referring to OP's wife as an adulterer glosses over a salient point, PP:  OP's child is still is still inside his adulterous wife.

Unlike the case with most adultery, her adulterous behavior poses an obvious risk to the child.  Her willingness to engage in an adulterous affair while pregnant suggests that the child's best interests are not of paramount concern to her.  
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HIV, herpes, Group B Strep/meningitis ... it's in that vein.[/quote]

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