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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Get a FWB! I'm sure if you put a profile on Tinder you can find one.

And then seek therapy. You probably had some trauma in your life if you feel like you don't want a relationship. Heal yourself.[/quote]

I agree she should [u]not[/u] sleep with a married man.  I don't agree that she had trauma if she feels like she doesn't want a relationship.  I've been divorced fairly amicably for 5 years, and don't feel like I want another relationship.  I'm incredibly busy with work, my kids, and my extended family (who live nearby).   Plus a lot of my free time is spent volunteering for an organization that I care about, and playing a sport that I've been into for years.  No trauma, but just don't want a romantic relationship right now.  Too much going on, and don't feel I can fit it in, or want to.  [/quote]

Fair point of course! No one needs a relationship...we are whole, complete people just as we are. We can live full lives without romantic love.

I think the op and women like her have some sort of trauma. If you don't want a relationship and just want sex that is fine and dandy. However when you seek out married people this is a clear demonstration that you have problems. What emotionally mature and rational human being would find fulfilment in being a wh@re. The man leaves you to go home to his wife and children. I am sure he professes love for the wife and spends holidays and vacations with her. The ow is left alone. What self respecting woman without issues would settle for this. There are plenty of single guys out there who would enjoy hookups with no attachment.

I just got a very despairing undertone from OP. Like she doesn't think she's worthy of finding love. I could be wrong of course.[/quote]
Yes. This is proof she has problems and finds some sick satisfaction in stealing a man away from his family.[/quote]

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