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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Fwiw, not planning family events will result in angry in-laws and we know how that goes. Same with not sending thank you notes.[/quote]

You think thank-you notes are important, we got that. Arguably they are. The previous statement however that men remarry so that someone else can write their thank-you notes is wrong.[/quote]

Obviously they don't remarry for thank you notes and I wasn't saying that.  The reason they remarry is probably subconscious.  But [b]a married man is used to having someone do EVERYTHING for them.[/b]  For so many men all they have to do is go to work and maybe do the dishes and they have this relatively cush life.  A life where they live in a nice home, go on vacations, have social events scheduled, kids are taken care of etc.  [/quote]

Is there a training course or certificate program to become one of these men? I read about them on here a lot, but I've never displayed any of these traits. I did more than half of the work around the house, because my ex-wife turned in to Peg Bundy when she got home from work. I cooked everyday, cleaned, paid the bills, and took care of our daughter. She didn't even know the pediatrician's name or where the office was when we got divorced. I felt like I was doing an orientation for a new employee when we split up. "And the teacher's name is... The kids dismiss at 3:15. Here's how you check the health insurance claims." 
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