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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His prior behavior is extreme. He has given you no reason to trust him, and every reason to distrust him - and yet he gets defensive and gaslights you when you are feeling insecure or uneasy.

Based on past events, basic logic can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that you cannot trust him. That doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating, but it seems you cannot have any expectations of him as a partner or husband.

I guess I'm wondering how you've remained in this marriage, truly.[/quote]

How? Or why?
Because I remember who he was before he was sick, and I am hoping, that going through treatment, the man he was will come back.[/quote]

OP, I am PP above ehi can really relate to this.  You have to be a more active articupant in treatment if there is any hope of working this out and creating a stable long term relationship. The two keys are 1) participation in psychiatry visits and overall treatment and 2) putting legal framework in place (access to all finances, post-nuptial agreement pethaps, power of attorney and healthcare power for you to invoke on his behalf when he is ill, signed HIPPA so you can know about his treatment and talk with his doctors, etc.

Have you done these things?

Hope alone is not a plan.  Trust but verify, as the Russians say.[/quote]

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