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[quote=Anonymous]Also, can we get off this idea that a woman who wants to wait is playing "games" or some such nonsense? Because, sure, some might be with an arbitrary number of dates set out just for the sake of making a man jump through hoops. But, while I love sex and am pretty high drive with a kinky streak, I am pretty shy/reserved and a little socially anxious with new people (like, I'm perfectly pleasant with someone new, but they might observe me seeming nervous, and I probably am). In general, I get along with most people but only really like a small number of people and I just don't feel attraction for someone unless I know them well enough to know I like them. If we've never met before a first date, by the third date, I'm just getting to the point where maybe I can see being attracted to you. So, no, I'm not going to sleep with you at that point. Once I DO warm up to you, we will be off to the races pretty quickly. If you aren't willing to be patient enough to wait that out or, don't have the social skills to draw me out a bit, which can move things along, then, that's fine, we are incompatible and I will send you on your way.

That doesn't mean I think I'm special or that I'm being a princess. It means I know what it takes for me to fully enjoy sex with someone and I figure most good guys prefer someone who is into it rather than someone who is swallowing down nerves. I also don't think someone who wants sex soon is wrong either--we all have different comfort levels and preferences. But, everyone is entitled to them without someone making ridiculous assumptions about it.[/quote]

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