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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My exDW is a drug user with severe personality problems.  I'd like to keep creeps away from my kids when she has visitation.  I asked my attorney about these sorts of clauses and she said that they are completely unenforceable, and just asking for one would make me look bad with the judge.

By asking, the judge knows you are putting the kids in the middle of the conflict, as in grilling them about "Who slept at mommy's house last night?  What room did they sleep in?  What is his name?"  How else are you going to find out what he is up to, who is sleeping over, and so on other than pumping the kids for information? An other adult showing up an event isn't proof she/he is sleeping over.  Or even that they are a boyfriend/girlfriend.

I have been divorced for three years and my kids have never met any women I have seen, have never asked about anyone, and have no hint at all I've even been on one date.

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I think you had a lousy lawyer. I would have fought tooth and nail to make sure none of Mommy's druggie boyfriends was anywhere near my daughter. [/quote]

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