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[quote=Anonymous][quote]So, she has a say in when her son meets the love child?  (Hint:no) she has a say in how that sibling is introduced to that child?  (Hint:no) she had a say in how much her son will be involved in that other child's life?  (Hint:no)

You see, her DH already decided all that and already decided what to tell their son.  Im not condonijng that she villonize her husband, I'm just pointing out that these decision s were already made for her and her children. 
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PP here. Yeah, get back to me when you've managed to bring everything in your life under your absolute control. Until then, I wouldn't want the advice of someone who can't figure out what IS in their control and/or relinquishes out of spite.

For kids who made none of the choices that led to their situation, they should at least have the option to manage their relationship in the way that works for them, not something that's based on their mother's anger. Right now, they have to share their dad with another sibling. Let them work out how they feel about that when they're ready to ask about and contemplate it. [/quote]

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