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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I asked, but haven't heard ... are they even HAVING regular sex? I doubt it. Why would he think last night was any different from any other day?[/quote]

Op. Not sure what "regular" is, but we have sex about 1x every 1-2 weeks. I think that's decent, considering he works, I work, our kids just turned 5 and 3, and so on. He is the initiator probably 75% of time. [/quote]

That's low, I'd say. Once a week is the bare minimum and at least once a month you should try to knock his socks off. BTDT.[/quote]

Thanks. Curious if you're BTDT as the DW? I would like to have sex more. I enjoy it and so does he. But many days am drowning in how much there is to do at home without his help, causing me to be physically and mentally tired and/or frustrated with his lack of support. It is a discussion we've had many times over. [/quote]

On days you're tired, why don't you just suck it up and do it (have sex)? Not trying to be snarky, I swear. But there are a lot of times I'm super tired and I've had a really long day, but I know that having sex is good for our relationship, so even a little quickie will help. I've actually NEVER regretted doing it while tired. Once we get going I'm always happy we did it. It's like going to the gym or for a run. The first step out the door is the hardest to take. Just do it. Now, if you get going and you're repulsed and just lying there, you have serious problems. [/quote]

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