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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To men: very very much. 
To women: not so much[/quote]
[b]Then why the fuq bother be with anyone who only values you by your looks[/b]? I don't get it. I much rather be single for the rest of my life than live a life knowing if I put on weight, my husband or bf would be so embarrassed and not wanna be with me, or as suggested in the other threads cheat on me. [/quote]
DP

Initial attraction is important. Initial impression is important. So, if a person isn't attracted to you visually or personally then it's hard to get past that. That's not a character flaw it's simply a part of human nature.

So, if that attraction is there and a relationship develops, and it does so to a point of marriage, there is far less to be concerned about down the road. Mature individuals know that one cannot expect a person to remain exactly as they were at the start of a relationship.[/quote]

I could not disagree more. There is much to be concerned about "down the road".
Sustained attraction (not just initial attraction) is important.
One certainly can expect his/her spouse will continue to care about maintaining an attractive weight.[/quote]

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