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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am also in a very low sex marriage.  We never had a very high frequency and my H has a very low drive.  But at this point, after 15 years of marriage, I think we both love each other like family and not like lovers.  We have a pretty good marriage in all other aspects:good coparents, fiscally compatible, no extended family drama, some similar interests, shared values, etc.  So we agreed on a "don't ask, don't tell" policy.  As long as we both feel like the primary commitment is to the household and each other's wellbeing, we can both go outside the marriage for passionate encounters.  But the rule is "no diseases, no drama". So, if some crazy betrayed spouse if a lover calls the house, that relationship is over.  If you test positive for an STD, then it's a violation of the trust.  It works for us, so far.  I think a lot of humans were not designed for 60 years of sexual compatibility and that's okay.  As long as there are no secrets that are not previously agreed upon, nobody is feeling disrespected, and the household is the priority, lots oc peripheral arrangements can work.[/quote]

+1 us too  [b]We still have sex 3 or 4 times a month[/b], which is all my DH needs.  I need sexting, flirtation, anticipation, new adventures to have together. He is pure vanilla. I know he's relieved that it's no longer a conversation topic with us.[/quote]

Seriously???? this is not a sexless marriage.  come back here when you haven't had sex for a year. [/quote]

+1. Or two ...[/quote]

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