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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. I have been following this thread wondering whether to post.  I am a DW who was in a "maintenance sex" marriage for past several years. Definitely the on downward slope. I was the one not interested. (I am close to 50). 
But... THERE IS HOPE! Things have changed for us!  I want sex with my husband (a lot) and am totally available to him. I initiate. I'm not even sure what happened to me, but I feel my marriage & family have been saved and I want to give others hope. I thank God that he stayed. I don't if this helps anyone but I hope it does.
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So what turned it around for you? Right now, DW feels zero affection or attraction for me, and it is hard to see it coming back. My efforts to build a connection meet with coldness and indifference. [/quote]

^This is my marriage exactly. We have been to a Retrouvaille retreat. We have talked about how important sex and intimacy are to me. She has acknowledged it is important to me. Yet she remains indifferent and cold and looks at me with dead eyes in the bedroom[/quote]

My marriage too. I believe my DW cheated in the past though she has always denied it and I have no proof, just strong suspicion. It is a shitty way to live. Were it not for our kids who I love more than life itself I would be gone.[/quote]

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