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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marriage is an institution created to raise children in a stable and safe home in a civil society, and not an institution created solely to give men sex on demand. [/quote]

The connection you are deliberately failing to make is that men accept the burden of monogamy and children [b]in exchange for[/b] sex on demand.

If the man doesn't get sex on demand from a faithful wife, he simply has no reason to agree to marry and raise children.[/quote]

I see your point much more clearly than you think.

What you fail to understand is that in spite of everyone's best intentions on their wedding day, it's a leap of faith, for both.  Life throws everyone at least a few unexpected curve balls.  That's why traditional marriage vows say for better OR FOR WORSE.  It seems you want me to say, okay, no more sex on demand, you have a defective wife, get a divorce!  That's not up to me, really.  That's under the governance of religious and government institutions, which by the way, have largely been set up by our foreFATHERS and clergyMEN.  What kind of stable family (if you have children) or society does that create, when every man has license to dump a wife for failing to have sex daily?  Not everything can realistically revolve around a man's sex drive over a lifetime. Really -- every. single. time.?  Get over it.  Grow up.

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