Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Religion
Reply to "Any Christian moms raising jewish kids?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, if you think about it from your fiancé's point of view, his requirement doesn't make sense. According to Judaism, if you don't have a Jewish mother, you aren't Jewish, and therefore aren't expected to follow the traditions and responsibilities, unless you convert. So, why bother converting the kids? If he wants Jewish children, he should have them with a Jewish woman. Otherwise, why not adhere to the cultural aspects but not raise them religiously Jewish? Honestly, it would make more sense for him to introduce the kids to the cultural aspects and let you handle their faith. If he is against Christian faith, maybe he has issues that need to be dealt with. (I'm Jewish, my DH is an atheist, and we're not raising our kids in any religion, but technically they're Jewish. Your fiancé would not be able to say that. He knows that, and that's why he's demanding you raise the kids Jewish.) [/quote] You may be Jewish, but you are also really dated in your understanding of Judaism. I don't think this OP gives a crap about the halakhic definition of a Jew (nor how it varies across denominations). OP, I wish you luck with this and I hope you and your fiance do the learning you need to do so that you can raise healthy children in the "right" religion (whatever that turns out to be). Every faith has courses to help with this. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics