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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do the add your spouse test - if adding DH to any of the scenarios you're asking about would make things awkward, then it's prob not a scenario you should be engaging in.[/quote]

I like this. And I agree with it.

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OP here. Wow, a lot of new comments while I was sleeping (with DH!) and at morning yoga.

I don't agree with the comments that it is cheating when a wife does things she doesn't tell DH about, or she wouldn't do if DH were present. I say things with my sisters and my girlfriends that I wouldn't say in front of DH, and some things I don't tell him about because they're none of his business and I think I'm entitled to some inner life of my own. A few months ago I had jury duty, and they let us out early.  I had a few hours to myself and realized my job and DH assumed I was stuck in the courthouse and unreachable. I went to a bar and drank a glass of wine while I finished the book I brought for jury duty, went to a museum, and then went home at the end of the day. DH asked me how jury duty was, and I said it was the usual day, not mentioning my free afternoon. Was that cheating?[/quote]

No, that was you firing a test balloon to see how it went. The small lie worked. Why wouldnt the bigger one? The bigger question is why feel the need to lie about that day. You did nothing wrong. Jury duty ended early and you made the most of it. I'd tell my spouse about it rather than lie.[/quote]

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