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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No of course not. All of the Debbie Downers in here are being ridiculous. Men and women are capable of being friends even when there is some attraction involved. And like you said, you don't know what his marriage us like. [b]It may be fantastic and something he'd never risk in a million years by sleeping with you.[/b][/quote]

LOL. If he had a fantastic marriage that he wasn't willing to risk, he wouldn't have a consistent flirting partner for faraway conferences. That's not what happily married men do, and the fact that you don't realize that fills in the details about your home situation more than anything else you could say.[/quote]

And you are revealing how immature you are. You really have no male friends who you flirt with? Maybe an ex you flirt with on occasion over FB? I personally think it's natural and an enjoyable part of life. Adults, even ones in long term relationships, are allowed to keep some things to themselves. I don't monitor my husband 24/7 and I don't feel the need to. I know he has female friends and I know he's not dead and I'm not stupid so yeah I realize that he's probably attracted to some of them. I trust him not to cheat on me and actually have sex with someone else, however.[/quote]

Go back and look at the original post. She said something to the effect that she may as well sleep with the guy if she's having an EA anyway. She's made it clear that her marriage is less than satisfying, so when you read what the OP has written, it seem obvious that she's looking for justification to have sex with him. While your point is well-taken, it might not be entirely applicable here. [/quote]

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