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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a husband, I'm trying to think about how it would go if my wife told me about something like this:

DW: Honey, I have something I need to tell you. You know that conference I go to every year?
Me: um, yeah?
DW: I met a man there a few years ago, and we are conference friends, and every year we hang out at the conference and go to dinner together. 
Me: Oh. OK. And?
DW: And what?
Me: Is there more?
DW: No. 
Me: So why are you telling me this?
DW: because the DC Urban Moms told me it was cheating and I should tell you. 
Me: I thought we agreed the DC Urban Moms are crazy. Are you screwing around with him?
DW: No. 
Me: Are you in love with him?
DW: No. I have a little crush. We flirt a little. 
Me: Do I know this guy?
DW: No. 
Me: Do you see him more than once a year?
DW: No. 
Me: Are you, I don't know, secretly texting him all the time?
DW: No, we email a few times a year about work stuff. 
Me: That's kind of weird. If you're friends and work on the same stuff, I would expect you to be in touch more. 
DW: Yeah, I guess it is a little weird. 
Me: Should I be worried about this guy?
DW: No. 
Me: Are you thinking about having sex with him?
DW: NO! Why are you asking me all these questions? Do you not trust me?
Me: Don't get mad at me. You're the one who brought it up. 
DW: Forget it. I shouldn't have said anything. 
Me: Yeah, you probably shouldn't have. Why are you listening to crazy people on the Internet?
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Nice try. Except she said this in the OP:

"how much worse would it be to spend a discreet night together"

If my DH told me that he is thinking about having sex with another woman, that would be a very different conversation.[/quote]

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