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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think you need to recognize your own responsibility in contributing to this unhealthy cycle between you and your in-laws.

It doesn't mean your in-laws are perfect.

But it means you are definitely not a saint. You clearly do like drama and are engaged in a "tit for tat" cycle. You know the term "it takes two to tango?" You are a contributing partner.

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+1. ALL. OF. THIS.

OP, you refuse to accept any responsibility for your own actions. You have repeatedly denied any wrong doing, when you are doing A LOT wrong. Nobody here can help you because of how adamant you are in refusing to accept blame for what you're contributing to the situation at hand. [/quote]

I put that I shouldn't have deleted SIL. I apologized to SIL. I don't know what else I'm supposed to do here? I guess I'm truly missing something.[/quote]

You've made 3 threads. The consensus on DCUM is that you're insane (and there is very rarely a consensus). So you need to be introspective now, but unfortunately, you've demonstrated that you are incapable of that. So you need to print out these threads and share them with your therapist. So he or she can give you proper help and advice. What you were supposed to do, according to you, is not engage with your SIL. Again, according to your own words, your DH is only supposed to interact with them, so why did you text your SIL? You are perpetuating a cycle of "abuse" (which I doubt) and you are only making things worse. So STOP DOING IT. Do what you've been told, which is have no interaction with your in-laws, and leave it up to your DH. And for heaven's sake, stop posting here. [/quote]

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