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[quote=Anonymous]When I was in college I got drunk at a frat party and saw a guy I briefly dates who was also drunk. We ended up making out and he ripped my pants trying to go farther. In his defense these pants were pretty old and easy to rip. I initially didn't want to proceed to 3rd base, but enjoyed it. I also experienced oral sex for the first time. Not the ideal situation, but I enjoyed it.

When I got home that night one of my roommates was horrified and felt I had been sexually assaulted seeing my pants. I explained I enjoyed it and didn't consider it assault. I said I will never drink that much again though because I had no interest in being so involved with him since I had already broken up with him. She kept pushing me to report and apparently even discussed it all with her therapist. She thought I should see a therapist because I didn't understand I had been assaulted. I got drunk, hooked up, went farther than I wanted, but then liked it and pants got ripped. I was not a victim.

If he forced himself on me when I was screaming or did forced sex it would be rape. This was not. I am a big girl and was stupid to get so drunk. He is a big boy and was stupid to get so drunk. He is fortunate I am a rational person because that could have ended his college career.[/quote]

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