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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have him get his T checked.  Seriously.

I'll bet dollars to doughnuts it's low.  If he's not into sex ask him for an open marriage.  See if the fact he has to compete with other men rules him up.[/quote]

OP here, he freaked out when I mentioned open mariage :( which  I found very unfair..[/quote]

Well, he can't have it both ways. If he knew he was low drive, he should have told you before the marriage. I hate to say this, but it is a gender roles issue. If this were a man, complaining about his wife, all the guys in DCUM would be telling him that he has the right to step out on his marriage because she is breaking the marriage contract by not having sex with him... How should it be any different for a woman if her husband isn't providing?[/quote]

I don't think anyone is proposing this as a first step.

First steps would be to see a doctor/counselor, etc.

I have trouble believing that a formerly sexual guy suddenly became "asexual" without a medical issue of some kind. Not at thirty-five. [/quote]

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