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Reply to "just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's been mentioned above but childhood sexual abuse can cause men to shut down sexually as adults. I lived in a sexless marriage for years and my ex would say he was just tired or stressed and refuse to talk about it. He wasn't cheating or a porn addict. He was angry, depressed, and abusing alcohol. Took a over a year of therapy before he was able to disclose that he had suffered abuse as a young teen. Despite a very long marriage he had never been able to share that with me. Not saying this is the case with your husband but it was something I never even guessed was affecting mine. I feel for you OP. It can really wreck your self-esteem and is especially hard if your SO doesn't understand how you are affected.[/quote]
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