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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here.  OP you're getting a lot of bad advice.  At 35 he should still have a drive.  This is likely due to the following:
Depression
Anxiety due to stress as work or home
Low T

Sometimes medication can kill it.  I know veterans on drugs for PTSD that kill sex drive.  Is he on mess?

If not, seriously schedule a physical for him and they can check T levels, among other things.  If he tells his doc he has no sex drive they'll do it for him.  Anything below 250 is really low.  Anything below 400 some doctors will consider low for a 35 year old.

If he's fat and out of shape - this can contribute to low T and thus low drive.  Oh yeah...and diabetes.[/quote]

Low T and anxiety could be a reason. Overall he is thin and in relatively good shape (he exercises regularly, goes for runs, eats healthy). But he doesn't seem very healthy these days. He seems tired, a bit worn out with big bags under his eyes. He is often cold and a bit pale. I am not into Chinese medicine but it looks like there is not enough energy circulating in his body. [/quote]

He needs to see the Dr. Maybe he is anemic. Maybe he is worn out from sleep apnea. Maybe some other hormone problem other than low T like high Prolactin. Take him for acupuncture and Chinese herbs too.

It could be that he is asexual. If so then he needs to let you have a boy toy to preserve your marriage for the kids. Forced celibacy isn't fair...for men or women. Yes I think the same thing when the roles are reversed.

But I think what is key is he needs to put some effort into making things better. [/quote]

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